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nolechica: (mardi gras)
Wednesday, March 9th, 2011 06:04 pm
Now that I'm feeling human again, this past few days was kickass. I love Mardi Gras, parades, and New Orleans. Sara and I went to Daphne on Friday for Mystic Order of Persephone, which Em and friends missed due to being stuck in traffic behind a wreck. That parade had the steel drum band from a local high school and we caught two dozen moon pies along with beads. I like traditional banana ones, but the new peanut butter and mint crunch ones are divine, if not marshmallow. Saturday's parade was canceled, but while that ruined Emily's Fairhope plans, it made Sara and my New Orleans plans kick ass. We made king cake to go with the fajita dinner, was delish. Watched the Duke-UNC game while we baked, payback's a bitch and thank god for Kendall Marshall, 12-1 since switching point guards, and focusing for forty minutes pays off. Regular season ACC Champs in a season that began very chump worthy.

One king cake really isn't enough for nine people though, damn Daddy needing the second one for work. However, I did have him help Sara and I make it, he has better hands for kneading dough. And he finished the decorating. I've redone the filling with cream cheese rather than butter and now decided that white powdered sugar icing with colored sugar over top is better than colored powdered sugar icing alone. I need to stock up on babies though, the cake we ate was responsibility free. It amuses me how many people think king cake is complicated. No, really, it's not and it's yummy. It is messy though. I use cinnamon and sugar rather than fruit in my cream cheese. Eight ounces per cake is awesome! Recipe Here

On a less foodie note, Sunday was crazy. Woke up to plans for Loyal Order of the Firetruck, the local Joe Cain parade, aka no formal floats, but plenty of bands and funky cars. Shadow Barons was scheduled to roll at four, but Sara wanted to go ahead to New Orleans. The big parade for Saturday, Krewe of Endymion, was rescheduled for 8:30, so we made it in time to park near the bus station and walk to Canal St, after catching dinner and hearing that the parade was mostly disbanding down Loyola. I'd never been to a proper New Orleans parade, I see now that Metarie totally doesn't count. The Grand Masters were Anderson Cooper and Kelly Ripa, very cool and appropriate post-Katrina. Train wasn't on their float though and they'd performed at the extravaganza the night before, meh. I got hit with beads and had more cups and doubloons thrown to me than I can count, no purple though. Those we had to retrieve later. Twenty-seven floats with a fifteen minute break in the middle. That was interesting because most of the families left. We caught light up beads, king cake baby beads, cowboys hat beads, and more gauges of purple, gold and green than I care to think about. The beads in New Orleans are more expensive than Mobile, and hurt more if they hit you. I was surprised by the lack of edibles though. We got twenty cups with the theme of American Masters, with floats devoted to writers, directors, and singers (everything from Mark Twain to Michael Jackson). We had two bags full of stuff, but could've gotten more if we could've carried it. Walking over beads is tricky shit when they are everywhere and it's dark. I do want to go to Bacchus Bash and catch Bacchus some year though. New Orleans is a great city for live music. Debating going for part of Jazz Fest in May. We shall see.
nolechica: (FSU)
Thursday, December 23rd, 2010 04:20 am
I don't usually get sad over friends and family, but I'm way freaked out right now. A weekend after I got back from Birmingham, my grandmother was diagnosed with leukemia. This is extra weird as we had discussed their funeral/burial wishes because my grandfather's not well either. However, my grandmother seemed fine yet she supposedly has around two months left. The chemo is slowing the rise of her white blood cell count, but hasn't begun to reverse it yet. All they can do is buy time. And while most people want items for memories, I was lying in bed this morning thinking of the scrap of paper I thought of taking off her counter that had the ingredients for her pimento cheese. She doesn't have a recipe and I have her other favorite recipes. I probably can't get it right, but it freaks me out to not have it. Also, I'm glad now that I took some cupcakes when I left my parents' house, but now eating them feels weird, knowing that I'll probably not get more. I'm debating another trip to Birmingham, but not sure if it'll happen. Especially since Granny's the type to not want us to be there if she's not ok. However, that may never be the case again.
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nolechica: (FSU)
Thursday, December 16th, 2010 05:03 am
Just got back from Daphne and Birmingham. My mother never learns. Do not try to buy shoes for me without my feet there. She did get me a gift certificate to Old Navy, as I needed skinny jeans before I tried on boots (flashback to riding boots and jodhpurs). I decided to have her return the boots and I got a check to get the ones I wanted. Also, got a Victoria's Secret card from grandma, the jeans and boots were also from them via my parents. As for visiting with Granny and Grandpa, I miss Granny, but Grandpa is much better sedated, even if he's sick. He's also ninety, so doing as well as can be expected. Not sure when I'll see them again since Charles and fiancee showed up. I got my graduation gift from him and thus have more money for Atlanta. Mom keeps asking me what I want for Christmas and I keep telling her help with my New Year's trip, but she's so into tangible stuff (see boots that don't fit) that it ruins my holiday. I don't care if I have less to open, really, I'm 28, not 8. I need to get Daddy to convey that to her while I figure out what to buy she who likes surprises. In addition to mom buying presents for me, I hate buying presents for her. It's impossible.

On the more ranting about mom, I think she bought my boots also because she doesn't trust me to be stylish. Even after I got yet another haircut and tried to find a workable style, my whole family still wants it straight. To the point of chemically straightening it. No, absolutely not. I don't even reliably cover gray, fuck straightening. I told Jeremy I don't really style it, so we tried working with waves. Now I want a diffuser. I like my hair wavy, and I don't care if they don't get it. Not sure when I'll get it cut next, but if Em and Mom bitch anymore I will absolutely lose it.

Also to add to family drama, the job hunt is going nowhere fast. I had an interview, but they left me feeling as if I was overqualified, which I am, but I have no choice. Can't get a teaching job and museum jobs are scarce. Plus, I'm still looking for jobs in Tallahassee and dying to move, either there or somewhere. My parents don't get that while I do understand there are money constraints, my money constraints are different than theirs or even Emily's. Plus, I don't think they'll ever understand how highly I value independent living. I don't like roommates, much less clingy roommates, and Sara gets very clingy. Anyway, didn't mean to go there, but it's been a rough week.
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Saturday, July 4th, 2009 12:54 am
Ugh, a conversation with Mom and Em this evening reminded why I don't come home much anymore. I knew Kathy Hawkins was hosting a bridal shower for Greer and that I was expected to be there. However, it's July 25th and this is the first I've heard of it, no invitation yet. Where things got ugly wwas the fact that since Kathy's hosting, it will be at a nice venue, which means new clothes, as I've lost weight recently. However, Mom wanted to go shopping this weekend instead of giving me money and letting me shop. When I mentioned shopping with Rachel or Sara, Mom said Sara dresses like a slut and she'd probably think the same of Rachel. Also, when I stated that I probably had pants that fit better than any of my skirts, she stated that I shouldn't be acting like a lesbian who refuses to wear pants. WTF? I never said I wouldn't wear a skirt, just that I might need a new one. And then she said something about the rehearsal dinner which I know damn good and well I'll need a new outfit for, but that's October, not late July. Plus, the outfit she suggested I wear this same group saw me in at a wake a year ago last October, so that makes me hesitant to wear it. Add to this that she's not going because it's too far to drive for one day and I'm a bit pissed. I'll have to get a bus to Macon or Atlanta and then rendezvous with Katherine or Em just to get to this event, possibly traveling the night before, and Mom's already worried about how I'll look? She should be glad that I feel compelled to be there at all.
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Saturday, July 4th, 2009 12:54 am
Ugh, a conversation with Mom and Em this evening reminded why I don't come home much anymore. I knew Kathy Hawkins was hosting a bridal shower for Greer and that I was expected to be there. However, it's July 25th and this is the first I've heard of it, no invitation yet. Where things got ugly wwas the fact that since Kathy's hosting, it will be at a nice venue, which means new clothes, as I've lost weight recently. However, Mom wanted to go shopping this weekend instead of giving me money and letting me shop. When I mentioned shopping with Rachel or Sara, Mom said Sara dresses like a slut and she'd probably think the same of Rachel. Also, when I stated that I probably had pants that fit better than any of my skirts, she stated that I shouldn't be acting like a lesbian who refuses to wear pants. WTF? I never said I wouldn't wear a skirt, just that I might need a new one. And then she said something about the rehearsal dinner which I know damn good and well I'll need a new outfit for, but that's October, not late July. Plus, the outfit she suggested I wear this same group saw me in at a wake a year ago last October, so that makes me hesitant to wear it. Add to this that she's not going because it's too far to drive for one day and I'm a bit pissed. I'll have to get a bus to Macon or Atlanta and then rendezvous with Katherine or Em just to get to this event, possibly traveling the night before, and Mom's already worried about how I'll look? She should be glad that I feel compelled to be there at all.
nolechica: (FSU)
Thursday, January 3rd, 2008 06:29 am
I should be sleeping, but I feel asleep watching the Fiesta Bowl after watching the UNC game. This was my first day to just chill since I left Tallahassee on the 19th. I'm never doing five cities in a week again. Tallahassee to Mobile to Birmingham to Atlanta to Augusta, all by December 23rd. Needless to say, my break was hectic. Too much family, not enough alone time. And having to squeeze Bryan in on Christmas Day was kind of annoying, but worked out okay. However, if I had it to do over again, I'd have worked until Saturday morning and then taken a bus to Atlanta, thus cutting out Birmingham and gift-giving in Atlanta.

Grandpa embarrassed the family by snapping at a waitress in Logan's and I had a weird conversation with Uncle Charles' eighth wife about her daughter, as she and I have a similar medical history. I don't like being put on the spot and especially not regarding children. Plus, meeting Emily's new boyfriend with the grandparents there was kinda weird. As for Atlanta, the family gift exchange is annoying, some of us want a real exchange while most purchase gag gifts. That needs to be settled before next year. Otherwise, I'll be skipping the exchange. However, after too much family, going to Augusta was nice.

An accounting of the rest of break must wait though, as I'm about to fall asleep.
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Thursday, January 3rd, 2008 06:29 am
I should be sleeping, but I feel asleep watching the Fiesta Bowl after watching the UNC game. This was my first day to just chill since I left Tallahassee on the 19th. I'm never doing five cities in a week again. Tallahassee to Mobile to Birmingham to Atlanta to Augusta, all by December 23rd. Needless to say, my break was hectic. Too much family, not enough alone time. And having to squeeze Bryan in on Christmas Day was kind of annoying, but worked out okay. However, if I had it to do over again, I'd have worked until Saturday morning and then taken a bus to Atlanta, thus cutting out Birmingham and gift-giving in Atlanta.

Grandpa embarrassed the family by snapping at a waitress in Logan's and I had a weird conversation with Uncle Charles' eighth wife about her daughter, as she and I have a similar medical history. I don't like being put on the spot and especially not regarding children. Plus, meeting Emily's new boyfriend with the grandparents there was kinda weird. As for Atlanta, the family gift exchange is annoying, some of us want a real exchange while most purchase gag gifts. That needs to be settled before next year. Otherwise, I'll be skipping the exchange. However, after too much family, going to Augusta was nice.

An accounting of the rest of break must wait though, as I'm about to fall asleep.
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